The monkey stole my free time. I have been so busy feeding monkeys, I have lost myself. The time has come to pluck them off my back, one by one, grab my laptop and do the thing that makes me so ridiculously happy and connected–writing. There is such freedom in writing and sharing, as well as reading my fellow bloggers’ posts. This is a huge part of my self-care and I love it.
As I am a recovering codependent, there are times I still fall off the wagon. I do too much and I help too much and at the end of the day I am exhausted. I do not follow my advice and take time for me. Turning off the worry and the need to fix everyone is crucial to all codependents, yet how do we do accomplish it? Others know they can continually come to us for help and we are overloaded with monkeys that have come from everyone else’s back. Time to turn the tables and give some of the monkeys back. It is really hard to feed them all, is it not? By hitting the switch to off duty, I am more rested, more caring, more helpful, and more at peace. Imagine that. Taking the time to look out the window at the world around me gives me the opportunity to switch it off. Finding the time to do the things that care for ourselves is important to our recovery. Your inner child will wake up and be giddy with excitement, as you have found the time to play. Check out of the monkey business, check into the solitude and freedom of your own mind. You, and your family, will be happy you did.
Check out these good reads:
- Table Top (fireonmyfingertips.wordpress.com)
- Information Overload (bigpurplesweater.wordpress.com)
- Solitude, Our Long Lost Friend (lifextwo.wordpress.com)