I want to jump, I really do. The dock is just too short. I may change my mind. The water may be too cold. The water may be too shallow. What if I can’t swim? What if I scream and no one hears me?
We are faced with choices daily. Why do so many of us jump just because someone else chose to jump before us? If the dock were longer, we would have more time to really think about the choices we are about to make, and maybe jumping would not be so appealing. Listen to yourself. Intuitions have their purpose. Be your own voice, your own mind, your own soul. Break away from the herd and stop blindly following others who have a louder voice.
Evidence equals truth and does not lie. Do not make choices you will be sorry for later in life.
Freedom from codependency is finding who you are and gaining the courage to nurture yourself, body and soul, first and above all others.